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When I entered the corporate world, I was shocked to find women 23-28 who were totally clueless about dating and men. I guess I was naive. They were smart, attractive, well-dressed and still complained they “couldn’t get a date.”

They weren’t carousel riders (that I knew of), some were dedicated against but were still called by the siren of modern female wisdom, “don’t settle,” and so they didn’t know a good prospect if he hit her in the face.

116Abbot October 9, 2011 at 11:18 am
One aspect of the argument you’re missing here is that the majority of the single men their own age have very low numbers.

She is not missing anything. Sex pozoids have NEVER even acknowledged a promiscuity gap or harem because to do so will leave them with lots to explain. They will not confirm or deny. They will make no opinions about it. Sure, they will reach for the occasional census statistic or “study” - not to show that women are having less sex but rather to try and show that men are having more. That men are equally guilty. But alas, they cannot.

117Badger October 9, 2011 at 11:22 am
“Xer teachers like me give the students permission to admit past mistakes (by admitting our own and calling a mistake a mistake*)”
You know, modern women are wound up with all sorts of anxieties and threats and they don’t really have anybody to talk about them with. Their female friend groups are off limits because they all know they’re status whoring to each other and can’t wait to stab each other in the back at the first sign of weakness.
It’s an overlooked part of game to service a woman’s emotional outlet, to be the one person she can talk to about these things. It produces an immense sense of comfort in her. This often leads to being the emotional tampon, but if a guy has the skills to leverage it, being the guy a woman can admit her mistakes and anxieties to becomes her “secret world.” Bangs will abound.
118ozymandias October 9, 2011 at 12:16 pm
Yohami: I do believe “nerdy effeminate boy gets a harem” is not entirely the outcome predicted under Game theory. :) I know it’s an anecdote and doesn’t actually disprove anything, but nevertheless it amuses me.