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Abbot says:
December 22, 2010 at 7:35 pm
“MANY of these same guys who will judge a woman on her past, alone, are guilty of the same promiscuous behavior.”
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That implies that many men have the same unfettered access to casual sex. Is that really true?
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“promiscuous women are actually good people. Not the “slut” types most immature guys label them as”
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Is a man who quietly and respectfully decides that a woman was a bit too promiscuous for his comfort level labeling her a slut?
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“Sure some women will lie about their past. Not because they regreat what they did necessasarly, but because they understand the double standard hypocricy that exists.”
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Perhaps over time they attain some wisdom and finally understand how marriage-minded men think and that can lead to regret
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“I don’t necessarily view hypocrisy as automatically a pejorative”
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But it is very clear that many people want you to feel that way and is meant to neuter your argument.
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“It is their right, no doubt, but it is the “why” behind their decision that doesn`t make sense.”
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It does not make sense if it does not make sense to the person making the decision.

Mike C says:
December 22, 2010 at 7:48 pm
How about the abused young woman with low testoterone, and low self esteem.. They are VERY promiscuous.

If you think it is just high testosterone women who are promiscuous, you are crazy. Many women are of low self esteem and are looking for validation.
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I guess I’ll keep this up a bit more til I get bored with it.
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LOL, you are proving my entire point with this sentence above. Promiscuity is often linked with other negative personality traits such low self-esteem and validation seeking. My point, which apparently you did not grasp, is that normal, well-adjusted women generally do NOT crave sex with numerous male partners simply for the sake of variety.
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As you yourself point out, usually some other dynamic is at play, such as low self-esteem which manifests itself in needing male validation. In any case, what you just said is a perfect example of how promiscuity is a good indicator of someone to avoid for a LTR. You don’t want to be some woman’s “rescuer”, you want a partner, so a wise man would want to eliminate low self-esteem women or validation seekers as marriage material. It really is funny that you used an example unwittingly to demonstrate exactly what I have been saying which is that promiscuity is a marker for other undesirable personality traits.